It seems there has always been tension between the rich and the poor. Poor people tend to blame the rich for their being poor. In some cases that may be true, but let’s face it, much of our life is what we make of it. We’ve all heard that if nothing is risked, nothing is gained. The difference in our lives is what we decide to risk. Money is the main way we measure success. Some risk their money and time in a well thought out enterprise. Others invest in lottery tickets or the casino.
I’ve known a couple of rich men and they are very different from each other. What they have in common is just one thing: they recognize an opportunity when they see it and act on it. This attitude started at an early age. You’ve got to be forward-looking and be forceful enough to make and carry out the right actions. Each success builds on another. Success becomes a habitual way of doing things.
One of these men said that every rich man has their “lucky” day, being in the right place at the right time, meeting the right person, marrying the right person, believing well-founded things. We orchestrate many of these things. Laziness is something we decide. A large part of our failure is the habit of procrastination. Tomorrow is always a good time to begin. Garth Brooks sang the song “If tomorrow never comes” which asks the most important question in life. If you pass from this life tonight, who will know that you loved them?
The real riches in life aren’t found in money, land, or anything material. It’s those things we put on autopilot.
Our marriage starts with choosing the one we pick to spend our life with. If you have children, how are they to be raised? Will they have the right god in their life, will you be a good example to them, will you choose your friends wisely? How ethical will you be? What will you, by example, show them is important in life?
Wes Bentley leads a ministry in Africa called Far Reaching Ministries. When he was a young man he was courting a great girl, a daughter of a good pastor, a giving and devoted follower of Jesus Christ. But Wes had a calling on his life; he was going to spend his life in Africa working in some very difficult conditions. He needed a wife that would be “comfortable” leaving the good American life and identify and suffer with the war-weary poor of Uganda and Sudan. He had to break off his relationship with a wonderful girl. She would find a more appropriate partner and serve the church in America. Wes found a girl that truly gave up everything and to this day they are doing marvelous work. Our choices aren’t always between good and bad, but between good and best.
The Bible says to choose this day whom you will serve. It makes a lot of difference if you do that early in life, as right decisions build on each other. Every day is the day to make the right choices. Don’t take jobs, buy houses, take vacations for money reasons. Sometimes we don’t have good choices, but much of the time we do. Wlll taking a job keep me from having a close and influential relationship with my family, will moving to another house be good for the kids, and will my making other things more important than God facilitate an end of life you can live with. Will I make a home for myself and my family?
I haven’t done those things. It’s only by the grace of God that there is any “rightness” to my life. It’s never too late to cross over into the promised land as long as you don’t burn bridges. Procrastination has always been a problem for me, the foolish idea that there is always plenty of time. Time is short, we say that but do we really believe it? Choose today whom you will serve. Choose to be rich in Christ and poor in the desires of this world.